Where to Live??

As a recent college graduate, I obviously am in the midst of trying to land a job. The days of securing a permanent position while still cramming for finals seems to have ended. Or, at least I wasn't one of the lucky ones. So not only am I running obsessively to try and ease the anxiety that has taken over my mind, body and soul, I am researching the best places to live. This may be adding to my level of stress, but hey it is kind of enjoyable to pretend for just a minute I may actually get a job in a city I actually want to live.

However. The cost of relocating is not an economically wise decision when student loans are looming and job security, like the economy, is not stable. Two years ago moving to Southern California to pursue a master's degree seemed like an intelligent and feasible task. Feasible, yes. I did receive yet another diploma, but question if the acquisition of a student loan was high on the intelligent side. I am a firm believer that education is an investment, so my sleepless nights are not drenched in regret. The thought of not finding a job coupled with the desire to once again relocate is.

In my quest to cripple anxiety, I found a handy little quiz to take to shed light on the value of relocating for a job opportunity. Honestly, my tenacity will not allow me to sit still in one place for long without achieving any goal. Therefore despite the end result of this quiz, I will move ANYWHERE to begin my career. Well, Alaska may be crossing the line. I'm not sure how I would adjust to constant light. Morning is not the best time of day for me, I'm an accomplished night owl.

Take the quiz. If not to solely entertain a fantasy.

http://careerplanning.about.com/library/weekly/quizzes/bl_relocation_quiz.htm

It's Time To Shine....with a little help from my friends!

When I first landed in Los Angeles, I was ecstatic with the opportunist climate. What better a place to pursue a career and a masters degree than a place completely overpopulated; copious with agencies, athletes, businesspersons and oozing possibilities. As I settled, the smog lingered. The more and more I engulfed myself into the professional and social sector I had the sudden notion that everything was not as it seemed. Everyone was putting on one big show. As if a film crew was following them around shooting their fifteen minutes of fame. Possibly a characteristic of Hollywood, duh, but I was not here to land an agent or spend hours sitting in a waiting room to show the talent reps what I've got, talent baby. Still I believe Los Angeles has potential for any career. Now at the end of my academic road, I am an advocate for the aura surrounding the entertainer. They can teach us all a thing or two about the form of networking. In this economy, perhaps the most powerful asset us career seekers have is the power of the relationship. This is an art. One I do not label myself as an expert, but an understudy.

Job seeking is like dating, we wouldn't waste our time with anyone who didn't make a good first impression. With this in mind, I suggest a few simple guidelines.

1. Find your red flag and wave it. Everyone has at least one good quality. If you're having a hard time pin-pointing yours, ask a friend, a colleague or a family member. You need to have confidence to ask out that hottie, and you need to have confidence in your ability.
2. Be approachable. No one is ever going to ask you to dance if your planted in the corner. Get out there. Mix, mingle, socialize. Be the one person in the room everyone wants to talk to.
3. Make eye-contact and smile. DUH!
4. Have a conversation. Let them talk. Let them tell their story, DO NOT just tell them who you are, where you've been, where you're going and how they can help. No one likes a self-loving, entitled, one-sided conversation. You'll loose them after the first five minutes of "look at me, look at me" ramblings.
5. Form a relationship. You wouldn't go up to your next potential date and ask them to marry you before even introducing yourself. Well, ok there are those overzealous individuals, but this practice is highly unsuccessful. The divorce rate is over 50%.
6. Remain optimistic. So the last person you talked to just was not feeling it. There are plenty of fish in the see. No matter what city your in.
7. Follow-up. So you have this rule not to call until at least 3 days after the first time you meet. Well, they gave you their contact information for a reason. Use it.
8. Be consistent. So they can't get you a job tomorrow. Maybe someone who knows someone who knows someone can in 6 months. They won't remember you if you don't keep in touch. All successful relationships are communicative.
9. Research the next potential informant. Where do the popular kids hang out. Go there. Know who might be there and google them. At the very least you'll learn something, but will also have an opening line. Creativity is key. We've all heard the, "Are your legs tired? Because you've been running through my mind all day."!!
10. Finally......Be all you can be. At this point you should be well into the relationship, have found your mentor and formed a lasting impression. Don't mess it up. A simple thank you goes a long way.

We are all putting on one big show.

The performance, a never-ending interview. The chance to meet our next employer, a friend of our next employer, or better yet a cousin's wife of our next employers ex-golf partner back in their hometown. You never know who you are going to meet. So go forth, stand out in the crowd, be the itch that won't go away. Good luck, hell we all need it!